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Valentine's Day


Question Posted Sunday February 8 2009, 10:14 pm

Hello! I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 9 months. We're both really looking forward to Valentine's Day but I have a couple questions. First of all, he's a freshman in college so when he does come home, his parents want to see him which obviously takes away from our time but that's understandable that they would want to see their son. But, the problem is, his Mom wants to cook us Valentine's Day dinner and then wants us to eat with their family. Do I have a reason to be upset at this? I mean, the only thing I asked of him was that we spend the entire day together, just him and myself. Anytime he comes home someone always ends up tagging along. But I don't want to sound bitchy when I tell him that I want to go out to dinner alone with him. Second of all, can anyone give me any ideas of what to do on Valentine's Day? I mean, yeah, I want to do some romantic stuff but I want to have fun. Any ideas? I open for any suggestions. Thanks for the help!

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kimberlymichelle answered Monday February 9 2009, 11:47 pm:
Okay so I know how you feel about the "mom situation" If his mom is wanting to cook for ya'll on valentine's day then either she must not be married or she is just really clueless. My ex boyfriend and I actually didn't end up working out because his mom (to me anyway) seemed like almost obsessed with her son! It got on my nerves so much how my ex was such a momma's boy. Your man should want it to just be you two or at least discuss the issue with you. You have a right to be mad! I hope you both work things out and have a great valentine's day!

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socalchick14 answered Monday February 9 2009, 8:30 pm:
Ha oh boy ok I'm like in the same situation as you. I'm 15 and my bf is 18. Just like talk to him and be as nice as possible about it. I'd probably say like it's really nice of your Mom to want to cook dinner for us and everything but I was kind of just wanting that day to be us two. Or you could always do a belated Valentine's Day Dinner! Or early haha I don't know. Ya, I would be upset if my bf's Mom wanted to do this but I would just try to be nice about it because it is pretty thoughtful. Hmm on Valentine's Day go see a movie or rent a bunch of movies together and cuddle(: or I don't know haha I'm sorry I'm really bad at thinking of ideas! I hope this helped.

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