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How can i prove to him that im not like the others??
Oka you see there this boy that i like and there is also these other two gurls that like him. They are both after him and both trying to get at him. And so am i, but you see i dont know if he likes both of them or one of them. Also he knows i like him and ive been liking him for like almost 2 years. Whithout really doing anything about it untill now. So these two gurls i guess they are like figting over him and stuff. And they are telling him how much they like him and all that stuff. And i guess he is falling for it. I just wanna know how can i make myself stand out to him, im not going to fight over him like all the others. But i do want him bad. And i really really like him. What can i do to make him understand. Also i dont want to be like oh i like you so much cause i bet he heard that alot of times. I want him to see that im different from all the others. How can i show that to him.
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Maybe, he hasn't made a decision yet because he wants to hear what you have to say? Yes, he knows you like him, but maybe he wants to know that you are willing to fight for him and what you want.
If you want to stand out, then don't act desperate. Desperation is a huge turn-off for guys, and it makes you look pathetic. Obviously, those girls are being pathetic. So here's what you do ...
-tell him that you like him [not drmatically and everyday like those girls are doing]
-say that you've liked him for a while and that you don't want to wait around forever for him because you've been liking him for what seems like forever and that you wish he would just like you back.
-tell him that you don't want to sound wierd, but that if he started going out with another girl, you'd be jealous because you have strong feelings for him [i don;t know why, but guys love it when you tell them you'd be jealous.]
-also mention to him that you'd never hurt him because you care so much about him and only want whats best for him and if that means being with 2 girls who are throwing themselves at him in a desperate attempt to get a boyfriend, you'll still always want him to be happy. and that you'll always be there.
If all else fails, move on. If he wants you to compete for him, than he's not worth your time. Although, he could be trying to make you jealous ... either way girl, I hope you get the guy :] you deserve it.
hope i helped ! good luck and keep me updated ! xxo
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Well, I think you should just be laid back. Kind of talk to him alot, give him hugs when you see him. Don't tell him you like him all the time because then you'll just seem like the others. Be yourself, act silly, talk about random stuff. and sooner or later he'll realize you have more character than the other girls and he'll start blowing them off to see you more. And when you see that change continue to be yourself and dont be SHY. Thats the worst thing you could do. Just come on strong, but don't push him off the edge. No matter how much you like him. Everything will fall into place.!
~Camz~
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