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Female.. ok here it is look im 12 and yes thats young to be sayin im in love but tha one i love is 17 my friends think im stuped or somithin but we have been goin out for 1 mounth and 7days and hes told me that he loves me and iv said i love him back and i do but wat i need advice in is i have no idea how to tell my mom to he age does matter how should i tell thanks for lisinin
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Hey, what a coincidence, I have also been dating my boyfriend for a little over a month. I don't think that you are stupid by any means. You may be truly in love with him and him with you, but the age difference does complicate things. I don't want to stereotype people, but all I'm saying is that a 17 year old and a 12 year old probably have very different ideas on what a loving relationship should involve. But I think that as long as the two of you are happy and that you aren't doing anything that could get you to become a teenage mother, then it can still work. If he truly cares about you then he will not pressure you to do anything that you don't want to do. I think that love is when you can be exactly who you are and the other person can be themselves too. Love is just wanting to spend time with a person and get to know them more and more every new day. Unfortunately, I don't think that your mother would understand the situation becuase, like most mothers, she would try to protect you from what could happen. I know about this all too well. My father does not like my boyfriend for a ton of reasons, but mostly because he is just afraid that I will get my feelings hurt or end up pregnant. And as a daughter you have to understand that your parents are only trying to look out for you. So if I were you, I would not tell my mother. I know that you probably want her to know. When I started dating my boyfriend I wanted my parents to know about him and possibly meet him. I thought it would be great. But I've realized that sometimes parents just won't understand the situation. And in my case the guy is 17 and I am 16. So I'd say keep it a secret because otherwise the situation will most likely get out of hand. Anyways, I wish both you and your boyfriend the best of luck. If you need anything else feel free to leave me a message. <3
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