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Boy problems !
Ok so I'm 17 and I haven't had the best luck with guys lately. I told a guy I really liked how i felt about him and he completely lied to me =[. Another guy i went out with for a few weeks likes me again and I really do not like him that way just as a good friend. This new guy came into my life and he came to my party and was really flirty with me. I was then told that he was thinking about me by a friend of my ex-boyfriend. I finally thought things were turning around but then this friend told me that he asked him if he liked me and he said no not as a girlfriend =[ but that there is always my ex-boyfriend. I cant decide if they lied to me about what this new guy said or if he actually doesnt like me. What should I do differently? What do you think this new guy really feels ? Sorry if that was confusing. I just need some help dealing with this situation when nothing seems to be getting better. Thanks
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One thing i learned in my life is not to believe everything someone says, people will end up taking advantage of you for that fact and i would take that to thought in this circumstance. The boy who told you that this new guy doesnt like you could of been lying so that you would go back out with your ex, but then again he could of been telling the truth. To make sure of this i would befriend the guy you like to get an idea of how he feels about you and make you're own judgement. To get what you want you have to put yourself out there when the opportunity is presented to you, you can be subtle by saying how you really want to go to see/do "insert something you know he and you both like here" then see if he asks you to see/do whatever it is with him, you may even have to ask him to do that certain thing if you are feeling confident enough to do so. Just dont give up on the thought of him liking you because of hear say, you'll never really know until you figure out for yourself.
hopefully that helps you out some, good luck!
Brittni
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