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Relationship breaks
Hi. Im 19 and im a male.... I was wondering in a relationship do you think that sometimes it would be best to take a break from each other if you feel that your girlfriend or you know that your girlfriend still has strong feelings for her ex-boyfriend....I don't know what to do about this situation, because I really love her and don't want this to break us up....can you help?
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Hi,
I just received your question. I am happy to help you.
I think the first thing you should do if you haven't already done so is talk to your girlfriend about how you feel.
Depending on her answer and if you truly think in your heart of hearts that she is telling the truth, you can base your decision.
First, if she tells you that you have nothing to worry about, and you don't believe her then I do think it might be best for the two of you to take a break so that she can get her feelings together.
It would not be healthy for you to be in a relationship with someone who is into someone else. I know it may be hard to face because of your love for her, but you would lose in the long run and if the two of you are meant to be, she will be yours anyway.
On the other hand, if you do believe her, take some time and figure out why you are so insecure. Give her and yourself a break and enjoy the relationship!
In either case, you can't force love in either direction. I hope I helped you.
Good luck with everything,
Ediemarie
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