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unexpected thoughts about another guy.
I started having sex a couple of years ago but haven't had it since last yearr and lately i've been having sexual/love thoughts about a guy I've known for a long time and have a love history together(never officially dated). But for the past couple of months I've been pretty mean to him, until a couple of days ago. Anyway, When i have these sexual thoughts I notice clear sticky kind of stuff in my panties and I don't know what it is. When Im not having the thoughts and going about my day as normal every day, Im like ALWAYS wet with white stuff(not the same as the clear stuff) in my panties, its thick and like pure white and I don't know what that is either. What's happening?
Also, Do i still love this guy, or is it completely a hormonal/sexual thing?? i have a boyfriend and for a couple of days we havent had any fights which he and i find amazing but I can't seem to get the other guy out of my mindd, its driving me crazy! :(
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It is all normal.
The "wet, sticky stuff" you feel in your underwear when you have sexual thoughts about this guy means you are getting turned on. When your body becomes exited and wants sexual activity, your vagina lubricates itself making sex easier. So that is normal and the only thing you can do to stop it is not to think sexual thoughts, which I don't recommend.
On normal days when your body excretes white stuff, that means you are discharging. Once again, it's completely natural and normal. This means your body is healthy and funcioning correctly. If you notice this discharge is funny in color or has a weird odor, that's when you need to worry. That could mean a yeast or bacterial infection.
I can't tell you if you love this guy. Only you know that. If you and your boyfriend are doing good, you like/love him (depending on the stage you two are in), and you have no clue if this other guy even likes you, I wouldn't suggest leaving your boyfriend for him. Maybe consider taking a break from all relationships for a while until you can decide what you are feeling before anyone gets more hurt than they have too.
Good luck!
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