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should I stay or should I go?
Hey, im 15 years old and female. Ohk so i am involeved sexual with my bestfriends ex boyfriend. And he is such a player we don't date we just mess around. He claimed that he hasn't done nething with ne other grl but me in the last 3 months... but I feel so bad bc we had sex and he was dating some1 infact she was 1 of my friends I relle just want to have more than a physical realtionship with him but idk he's such a player! And I know he doesn't want that from me and that he's not over my bestfriend and that kills so should I stay or should I go?
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Hello,you kind of answered your own question when you said he doesnt want that from you and he is a player. If a guy cheated on his gf with you then he will do the same to you,guys have as pattern and it usually continuses,you dont want to get hurt by any guy you deserve so much more. You deserve to be treated with respect and loving kindness and i am not sure if he will provide you with any of that. An he is still not over your bestfriend thats a big issue as well,if he has feelings for someone else then there is no room in his heart for feelings for someone eles, You gave to completeley be over someone else to give your full self and your heart to someone else. You dont want someone who is not ready for a relationship. I am not sure if the relationship you two have right now is good for you because he does not have the same feelings for you that you have,i think he thinks the relationship you two have is purley sexual and nothing more and you are starting to see it in a different way. The only way to get over is you can either talk to him about the situation openly and tell him how you feel directly to see his reaction,or you can just stop seeing him because these feelings that you are having for him are only going to get stronger. But as you can see I'm not sure if he would treat you like you deserved and you dont want that,never settle..you deserve the best,always rmemeber that,If you can tell a guy can treat you how you deserve to be treated and wont open up there heart to them they are better off gone.you will have plenty experiences with guys in your life you are still young and you will see that guys from age 14-19 or even older mainly have sex on there minds and if you examine how they treat you even when not in arelationship you can find out twhat they are really after. Yu want a guy that wants you for your mind and all that you have to offer not just your body because they may not respect you if you just give up yourself quickly!I hope this helped and I wish you the best of luck,if you have any further questions on this topic or any other topic I would be happy to help you just send another private message. Hope everything goes well and you can update me on the situation if you need further advice:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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