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confused about boyss..
i have many guy friends. i am really really boy crazy. i'm fifteen and a 10th grader.
around one boy i am a complete nerd and i can act myself and loud and i have so much fun around him and i cant even do that with my best girl friend. i am usually pretty shy around guys.
I really think i like like him a lot because i can act my full self.. i was actually wondering if i.. loved him.. is that possible? because i have no idea why i can act so normal! or do i just not care because i think of him as a friend and dont care what he thinks? i've hooked up w/ him before and i did like him and when i kiss him it is something special but the problem is i can't like him because of my best friends.. (thats a whole other story)
can you please tell me i can convince myself its just a friendship?
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Hello, well you are in a very confusing state of your life, you are 15 and still figuring out yourself and others. When you become older you will realize that your awkardness and or counfusion about boys will dwindle, When you mature you will find that you can be your total self and be toatally comfortable with a guy and not like him in that way to ahve a relationship but just to be good friends. This may feel different because you may be use to only feeling this close to a girl that is a friend and when you feel this way about a guy it gets confusing because of the whole relationship thing, PLenty of girls have guys that are there bestfriends and or girls its just about who you connect with and who understands you. But you know yourself better than I do so may very well have feelings for him, you do not have to convince yourself it is just a friendship it is what it is and only your feelings can tell you this, Friends are important but they cannot make decisions for you and have them alter your decisions you have to do what is best for you and if they dont understand then they may not be the friends you think they are,friends support you but after all i dont know the situation you are in.I hope this was helpful if you need any more advice with this information or anything else for that matter I am here,you can send me a private message and I will be glad to help you with anything..the best of luck to you!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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