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I`m telling her husband on Tuesday!
Thankyou for your kind advice. I`m telling her husband on Tuesday. I nhave my evidence and I will also ask for my money back and all the jewellery I have given her over 4 long years. She`ll react and threaten me, like she did before. She has already threatened to get me 'beaten up', but I`m no longer afraid. Do you think I should ask for my money bac?, after all she did say she would give it back to me one day. I have already told my wife so have already taken that weight off my shoulders. This is not about 'reclaiming the initiative' but about getting her out of my mind and life. She has constantly taken advantage of my love and I don`t deny I still love her but I have to stand up for myself at some point. She won`t react well to this but that will just show her true character. I`ve always been passive and always retreated back into the shadows at the first sign of trouble but I feel I need to go in all gins blazing and tell her I won`t take this anymore. I`m not looking for victory but I do want rid of her and this will certainly create a serious hatred on her part and I expect that anyway. She is the most manipulative creatire I know and this will bring her down a peg or two.There is a fire in my heart and I need to extinguish it. She thinks me a soft touch but she`ll find out I`m ready to face up to her and her lies and her manipulation. I suspect her husband already has an inkling of her escapades and when I tell him it will only confirm what he suspects anyway. So should I go in all guns blazing and tell her I want my money back and that I`m telling her husband or should I just let sleeping dogs lie and probably wither away and just die in pain?
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What i would do is just tell her husband and then leave. I wouldn't ask for your money back or jewelry unless she is willing to give it back. Then, you will just start another argument between you two and she will get even more mad at you. I would want the whole big fiasco to end so that's what i would do. Yes, she will be very mad and that's just what she will do. You yourself even said this. In time, she will cool off though and get on with it so don't worry. If you have any other questions, just let me know. I will be glad to help! Good luck!
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