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I need a guy advice!
well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago, we still talk and stuff. but we haven't seen each other ever since the break up.. and I miss him like crazy, and so does he.. and ever since we broke up he's been acting different.. he told me he feels like his concious left meaning he doesn't care for anything or anyone.. and even his mom doesn't like it WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?.. my brother told me its probably because of you guys, cause you guys had to break up from the situation (we had to break up because I'm moving to pennsylvania, and he's going to iraq in may) and I think my brothers right of why he is acting like that but I don't know.. I miss him like crazy.. and main reason I need help is because should I just meet up with him or come over his house? because I get to scared if I invite myself over and if he doesn't want me over I'll feel stupid =\... he calls me like at 1am most of the time just to talk to me haha, he's crazy ;).
so I don't know help me out! what should I do, what should I say? anything!
Please help!
thankkss xoxo.
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Hi,
You told us , how long you guys broke up, but not how long you guys was together.
But anyway, this is from a guy point of view.
He is going to Iraq in May, that says it all to me and it should have been very clear to you too.
He is trying to minimaze your/and his feelings by breaking up with you in advance, you see a guy needs clearity most of the time of absents, that their girl, will not cheat or leave them when they are not present or in the same country.
I think that you now understand what you need to do in other to keep him or let him go his way.
If you love is meant to be now you know what to say or do to keep it.
So Good luck in doing so and let us know what the update is on this issue
Love is only love when you love love it self
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Follow your gut instinct, if you feel that you should go and see him, then go and do that and talk it over face to face. My guess is that he's reacting to this breakup to very different way to other people.
I'm going to take a guess here and say that since he broke up with you, he may feel as if he likes/loves anything or anyone, he'll get hurt again and he may be trying to protect himslef from being hurt again. I'm assuming that the relationship has been going for quite a while if you're feeling like this.
Go, see him and talk it over and what you want to do because I think it will be the best thing for the two of you to do right now. And if he doesn't want you there, then just say you want to talk and I think the fact that you drove/walked etc. to go and see him should show him that you're serious about talking to him.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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