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its not quite love but i think about her, what is it? :S


Question Posted Saturday January 17 2009, 3:28 pm

well lets start by saying im a guy and im 17 still in college (a 6th form in an upper school really) pretty much all of today i have been thinking about this girl that i know hardly anything about. she added me on msn probably 2 days ago and we've talked a little here and there shes a year under me at school. i work in a big food store were i see alot of famillier faces at the weekend's and after about 6 hours of being at work and thinking about her for most of the day i came down from break and i could have sworn i saw her as i turned the corner coming back out in to the shop, my heart jumped and it pumped hard. then i relaxed it because it was some one who just looked alot like her because she was taller. but anyways if im thinkin about her this much but i dont think i love her what is it? :S its confusing i dont really know enough about her to want to get into a relationship or ask her out or anything... could it just be that i think she could be some one i would like to get to know better? shes really sweet and shy but quite easy to talk to once you get her going :P i dunno what do you think this is?

quick summary:
i dont love her
she is a friend though
i dont really know alot about her
i'v known of her for about a year now since she joind our 6th form
i think about her quite a bit and i dont know why
im confused, am i feeling hope?

iv also not had a girlfreind since year 10 (so its close on 4 years of being single)


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Uniq_The_Geek answered Saturday January 17 2009, 6:15 pm:
You might not be in love, but it sounds like you have a crush. Maybe since it's been quite a while that you've been in a relationship, you're eager to get to know this girl, because she's added you on msn. Hey, being eager isn't bad, but don't come on too strong lol. Just get to know this girl... who knows what can happen! Good luck

Flirty :)

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HotSauce answered Saturday January 17 2009, 6:15 pm:
First off. Awhhh There really are sweet guys in the world.
Also, lets see I'd really say you may feel something for her. I really would suggest getting to know her more. She probable likes you two. I wouldn't doubt it. Anyways, yeah love doesn't always start out as love. So probable try to catch her after classes or what not, and talk to her for sometime, and when you are confident enough as her out! ^.^ just for some coffee or what not to get to know her. :D make sure you tell her you want to get to know her.

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Cux answered Saturday January 17 2009, 6:11 pm:
You hit the nail on the head when you said:

"Could it just be that I think she could be some one I would like to get to know better?"

That's it. So do it; get to know her better.

Sorry, I just like to get to the point ;].

--Jack
(17/m)

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