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guy problem
13/F Im in love. plz dont lecture bout being to young to be in love. But problem is we lost contact for awhile and he has a girlfriend now. He said he started to love me before. But he talks to me like we used to even though he has a gf and he likes me a little more every day but i dont want him to hurt his gf
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I agree with Jack. It seems like he wants his cake and eat it too. It's great that you're thinking of how he will hurt his girlfriend while doing all of this, so just stay clear of his path, or else he'll drag you into so much drama with his girlfriend if she ever finds out. Either he acts appropriate with you and be happy with his girlfriend, or break up with her to be happy with you. But not both, you deserve much better. Remember, if he's doing this to HER, he can do it to YOU as well. Good luck hun!
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My best advice is to just stay clear of this guy until he is not with his girlfriend anymore [hopefully that has nothing to do with you].
Being "that girl" is never a smart move. Plus, the guy is probably really confused right now, and with you talking to him, it doesn't help.
Give him his space until he decides what he's going to do.
In the meantime, stop thinking about him.
--Jack
(17/m)
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Fine I won't lecture you. Even though I'm like twice your age, and can't give you an exact idea of what love really can mean to someone.
Anywho, I'd say that if he hurts his gf, it's his own doing. You're not doing anything wrong by talking to him or whatever etc.
Just be his friends, if he feels love for you is way greater then his gf, he'll let her go with such as an excuse as, "I'm sorry I'm in love with someone else, and have been forever. We just haven't seen each other in such a long time!"
So do what your doing. don't feel bad.
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