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go for it?
16f Theres this guy 17 that from the beginning i knew he was interested in me. we kind of got set up to meet eachother or get to know eachother and just based on looks i knew i would wind up liking him. Recently he told me he liked me, i didnt say i liked him back, because im still on the fence about it. Hes asked me out on dates and i didnt say no but not really a yes either so that hasnt happened yet. He is not someone i would want to go out with but it is almost like i cant help but think about us. were both pretty immature when it comes to eachother and we like torture eachother lol. My best friend doesnt like him and has been trying to do anything to get dirt on him. People have told me not to get involved with him. i can understand sometimes because supposedly he just likes to get with girls who will have sex and he does drugs. I always like to give people second chances and i believe in change but they say he wont change. I dont know wether to go for this or back away from it. opinions?
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Well Just the fact that he does drugs is a BIG no no. I understand you like to give people second chances, but think about this: Drugs are VERY addicting. And Lying is too. I've been through a situation like this except I didn't know he was a liar, a cheater. I did know he used drugs but that was only because he confessed it one day. This guy honestly sounds like he can be a cool friend to hang out with, but not a good guy to date. if you DO choose to give him a chance, be aware... Im not saying control him, but beware of the drugs and lies that may come along with it. I would back away from this guy, and just keep him as a friend. BUT, if he likes you so much, perhaps you guys can set some ground rules? For example, no using drugs or smoking, drinking. keeping the relationship monogamous, etc. Good luck!
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ohkay well i'm 14f
i dated this guy who was older than me and he was kinda how your guy sounds.. well i'm just warning you.. i dated him and i saw him from a different perspective than everyone else did.. well i thougth i could trust him and that he loved me.. but he ended up being all about sex.. i thought that maybe he'd get over it after i said no.. but then he met my friend.. and i started txting him from her phone.. when i left a few days later he started txting her trying to get with her.. soo i don't think it might not be good...
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if he really is a bad guy, it will end up being way too much trouble. your friends dont need to get dirt, if he really does like you, and ya'll have a good relationship, just ask him if he only wants sex. you'll be able to read his facial expression to see if he's telling the truth. and ask him if he does drugs. (fyi-if he smokes pot, its ok... nothing to be worried about) but for real, just ask him about it. think about it, and try it if everything pans out well. if he is sketch about it, then ditch him
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