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Question Posted Monday January 5 2009, 10:50 pm

hes had sex before with a 15 yr old girl, he kept asking me questions about sex, my vagina was getting hairy anyway and i had never really shaved it and i didnt want to do anything stupid to it. He took me to this place where i had no idea where i was, i was at my horse barn and we were to go to taco bell and home, he took me to this lake at a parking lot and it was completely dark. He pulled down his pants eventually, and i was looking away asking him to stop, and i dont want this. Techincally he kidnapped me. I was scared. He has been involved many times before too, and he scares me...! He's 18, he should know not to mess with 15 year old gurls like he has before, i want to put an end to him so he stops hurting other victims.

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Peeps answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 12:30 am:
This makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.

If he asked you about your vagina and you weren't interested--WHY did you engage in such conversation? And WHY did your question say that you wanted to remove the hair so that your friend (that you admit is this same guy) could play with you since he liked hairless vaginal areas. Sounds like somebody is playing an innocent role here when she may have pursued a sexual relationship at some point.

He took you to his place...but, uh, you didn't know where he lived? You met the guy online, arranged a meet-up which your mother approved of, and you had NO CLUE where the guy lived? And then...uh...he lived at your horse barn? Please, if you want to give me information, rephrase this because it's very confusing.

You WILLINGLY went with him...AND your mother approved! You are of age (13+) to decide who you can, legally, choose to go places with. You didn't feel he was a threat at all. He did not kidnap you, please stop saying he "technically kidnapped" you. He didn't, plain and simple. If you told that to a lawyer, he'd throw it away as useless information. You felt comfortable enough to get in a vehicle with him and trust him enough to drive you wherever.

...you're telling me that he just randomly pulled his pants down? He didn't SAY anything sexual before it. You didn't SAY anything sexual before it. You two are just sitting in a parking lot and he was just like BAM! PENIS!..right? Yeah, right. That NEVER happens. He would have to be retarded to keep his pants down if you freaked out like that and you two hadn't had any sexual talk before he pulled his pants down. If you want to make the story believable, throw in that he had been drinking so it makes more sense as to why he wasn't that brilliant when he randomly exposed himself and you started screaming for him to stop.

Who cares if he's had sex with a 15 year old before? Do you realize that just saying that a couple of times makes you sound like a very jealous girl who is trying to stab a guy in the heart because he went out with another girl or something? Plus, you couldn't do a thing even if you knew for a fact he had sex with a 15 year old girl unless the girl was you. Seriously, that "information" is also completely useless unless someone could PROVE he did have sex with her and he wasn't just messing with your head or something when he told you. I mean, heck, I can claim that YOU had sex with a 2 year old but that means absolutely nothing unless I can somehow prove that...see what I'm saying?

Look, your story doesn't read right at all. I'm sorry if you were touched inappropriately but it really sounds like you're trying to get some attention and make a guy's life a living nightmare while you're at it. If you're serious, then feel free to give me information. If you're just after a little bit of attention then, please, stop before things get way out of hand. You may have regretted some things you've said to him or done with him but please don't regret making his life horrible because of this.

Like I said, it's really okay if you started to let him touch you or something and you feel bad, guilty, or upset now. A lot of girls do that sort of thing. You're young. Your hormones can get the best of you. Your body can act before you can think things through. It happens. Please, think this through before you decide to do anything drastic, that's all.

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