Question Posted Saturday December 27 2008, 7:12 pm
15/f
ok i have a problem .. the problem is that i have no best friends .. i mean i have one best friend thats a guy and i have no best friends that are girls .. and a girl needs to have her girlfriends to tell everything to and talk to about things that you normally wouldnt talk to with guys about .. but im a sophomore in high school and i feel like all the groups of friends have been formed and i feel like kind of on the outside.. i mean i actually do have a lot of friends im not a loser or anything its just i dont have like one or two REALLY good best friends that i would be able to tell anything to .. and the problem with my best guy friend is that one of my friends likes him so everytime we hang out alone it looks suspicious to her that i like him or something but i dont were just best friends .. i just dont know what to do because i feel like when my guy friend hangs out with his guys and i dont reallly have girls to hang with and when i do hang out with some of my girl friends its seems like its not that fun because its not a usual thing where were so close that we are comfortable telling each other a lot of stuff... help pleasee
My only advice to you is to join a club or sport or something.
Like do the school plays, or join Key Club, or start a club, or something.
Why I'm saying this is because when you spend a lot of time with people in a common club or group gathering, you start to become better friends. I know for a fact some of the best friends I've met have been because of the school plays, and they'll be some of the people I actually care to talk to after high school.
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