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Ugh Jealous Friend!!!
I Have This Bf But Its My Bestie's ex... so now me and her ex r together... and now shes lying and stuff saying shes happy 4 us.. wat do i say?
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Well thats a tricky and akward situation to be in. What I want you to do is set a date up with your best friend, just you and her alone to have a girls night out, and I want you to have a serious conversation with her about what happened and the whole situation. Listen to each other, you guys have been best friends longer than her ex has been your boyfriend. Also, I want you to take all of your problems that have similar situations, and flip them around. What I mean is, for this particular situation, put yourself in your friends shoes. Pretend that you are her, and she is you, your best friend is now going out with your ex, and you really feel upset and hurt by it, but you are going to just tell her that you are happy for her, because you are not going to start a fight by saying you hate it.
I dont think she wants to loose you as a best friend, or let a boy come between you guys. Start with open communication. Let me know how this works out for you! Good luck, and thanks for the inbox! :-)
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