Question Posted Thursday December 11 2008, 1:35 pm
Dear Nallie I am 18 years old and a male. My girlfriend and i have been together for a little over a year we fight a lot. Most of the things we get in fights about are things like me getting on her nerves because when she jokes around i joke back but she gets mad because i joke back. Anything i try to talk to her about that i am upset over i cant talk to her because she gets mad about it. then she wont talk to me. Shes very closed and shes been that way ever since we started dating. When i get mad about things like shes flirting with a guy and she doesnt notice she will say its rediculis and be mad at me because im mad at her. I can never have an opinion about something because she gets upset about it. Also in our sexual life she always wants me to do stuff to her to make her feel good u no but when i want her to do stuff to me she gets weirded out like she doesnt wanna. its kinda like i do stuff and get nottin back most of the time. weve been arguing non stop about everything. She always says "ohhh my god we fight about everything" but shes the one whose gettin mad about everything. I just wish she would talk to me and not get mad about everything. She always will say i dont know what u want me to say. I get upset about things and i dont ever talk about them because she will get mad and then wont talk about them. What should i do?
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