Okay so i broke up with this guy mike like almost a month ago. He was obsessed with me and he only wanted a girlfriend so he could show off and stuff. So, you would think he would remove all the information that says he has a girlfriend from facebook, aim, myspace, and his youtube account. But it STILL says he has a girlfriend named Haley! Which is me. His profile picture on myspace and facebook still has us together in it! and his youtube page says I love my girlfriend Haley, and blabla. So i asked him if he could please change it, and he said 'All i have to say is udecided yet'. And its been 3 weeks and he hasnt changed ANYTHING. He's been on facebook a billion times, and myspace and youtube. And he still hasnt changed ANYTHING!Its really aggravating me cause hes giving people the wrong idea, and hes not letting go to the fact that we are OVER. If i get a new boyfriend its gonna give him all the wrong ideas, and ruin our relationship!
How do i get this jerk to stop?!
People can post whatever the hell they want online. There is really, nothing at all you can do about this except give him dirty looks.
I'd recommend you stop asking him to take it down. He is obviously loving the attention.
By all means, be as direct as going online and posting on his wall "Dude, please. It's really disrespectful that you still have my name up there as your girlfriend. Unless you are dating some other girl name Hailey, take it down already."
Post it as a note, or in your status. Something just like that, not nasty at all, just direct and matter of fact. At least that way, if someone is confused, you can tell them to look at the posts you made.
But really, stop talking to him about this. That's only feeding the moster. Make it as obvious as you can (without getting into some sort of posting war) that you aren't with him anymore, then let this go. Because if you don't, you'll only be making it worse. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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