Question Posted Wednesday November 26 2008, 10:14 pm
One of my really good guy friends came to visit me this weekend. We flirt a lot in general and we love to cuddle but that's just how we were. Well this time we were cuddling and we ended up kissing and then we went all the way and had sex. We ended up falling asleep together and doing some stuff in the morning and when he left we kissed each other goodbye, but now I don't really know what's going to happen. He and I have talked before in general (not specifically about us) and he's not very good at long distance relationships because of jealousy issues and I'm not really either. We still don't even know if we like each other that way or not...I mean, we're basically best friends and I have such strong feelings for him, but I didn't think either of us were sexually attracted/romantically attracted to the other person when I guess we both might be. He says just "give it time" and we'll come up with an answer, but I keep thinking about it! It's constantly on my mind. What should I do? Was it a mistake? Are we going to have problems?
ccupcake07 answered Thursday November 27 2008, 7:54 pm: Just wait and see what happens. You might not of thought that you were for eacother but you may be, i would just go with the flow and see what life brings you. Talk to him about it and what both want and "are" together. It will all work out. Hope this helps! [ ccupcake07's advice column | Ask ccupcake07 A Question ]
Breezy37 answered Thursday November 27 2008, 4:54 pm: id just go with his advice. just go with the flow itll work out. if you are happy then it wasnt a mistake. you might have problems but if you really like each other its worth a try.
talk to him and see what he thinks and wants to do about it all.
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