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i can't let myself do it
18 female.
i'll admit, i think i'm a pretty girl. i do have confidence when it comes to guys because i've been told so many guys that i'm gorgeous and any guy would be lucky to have me but i'm still a virgin. i'm not ashamed of it, i love the reaction guys get when they hear this because they think it's impossible. the bad thing is, i am always horny. i have never actually went out with a guy before maybe it is because you could say im a "prude" the farthest i've gotten was making out and well the usual butt and boob touching. gotten a hickey but thats all. i always have the urge to do things with guys but i can't let myself do it for some reason. i'm scared, i'll admit that and i feel like i'm always just going to get used by guys. i feel like if i do something i'll get attached to them, and i'll really start liking them and they will just want to hook up, with no strings attached which will hurt me in the end. no guy has ever asked me out, well because i'm picky. i know tons of guys who have liked me and i flirt with them but i feel nothing beyond being friends with most of them and then they move on. i want this guy, who is unavailable and the bad thing is i can only see myself doing anything with him. he knows i like him, i have feelings for him but he won't break up with his girlfriend. also the guys i do like, they try to do things with me and i back off. like i get scared when guys want to kiss me, or make out with me or even go beyond that. i know i'm not ready for sex but how can i overcome doing something physical with a guy?
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It is so good to read your letter, two of the most important things in life is to know what you want and what you don't want. Continue being picky and find the one for you. Always be skeptical about guys until they prove you wrong. You know that applies to women too, always suspect motive in everyone. Make the right guy win you over, all women should consider themselves a prise to be won over, because you all are. You are diamonds that will always sparkle when treated right. Sorry if that sounds sexist, or demeaning, it's just the truth.
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well the truth is if your not ready... you should not have to worry about doing something with them. he wont be the only guy you will ever imagine yourself with. and normally if you do do something with a guy it deffinately doesnt always make you feel more attached. Odds are that many guys do want just that, but if you get to know someone you never know..you might develop getting attached to who they are.
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