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Question Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 7:12 am

Ok, so not too sure if this is under the sex category? But never mind!

Yesterday my boyfriend asked me to wear a skirt for him, so like, say hes talking to his friend and is facing me (their back turned so theyre not facing towards me) I spread my legs and he looks down and sees my .... uh, yeh! ;) and hes smiling and nodding away at his friend and only me and him know whats goin on. Aha.
So its like a little naughty, a little sexy and secretive and he gets off on it sort of thing...

but I was wondering... what other sexy, maybe sort of secretive things like this could I do for him?

Thanks in advance!
xxxx

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Kendra_Berri answered Sunday November 23 2008, 4:10 pm:
This isn't what you're looking for, but I would recommend not doing things like this at all. It will make you seem cheap and if/when you break up, he'll probably tell everyone what you did and make you sound like a slut. Guys who are immature enough to ask for such a thing are immature enough to spread the news about it to make you look bad.

Who you are should be enough to make him attracted to you. If he asks you to do these things (which sacrifice your self respect) he can't care about you that much. When you're in love you don't want to put the person you love in a compromising position like that where you're taking a risk and he's reaping all the benefits.

What about what he can do for you to make you happy? What about your needs and your happiness? What he doing that's so wonderful?

This is important because it's a terrible thing to learn the hard way: Men who try to get you to behave like some kind of porn star (instead of a person with feelings and dignity) don't really love you. They just love what they can get you to do for them.

Don't you realize? If you had been caught, people would be talking bad about you, not him. There's a saying about being a lady in public, and a whore in the bedroom. Don't cross those boundaries if you want to be able to respect yourself as you get older, and have men's respect (and love) in return.

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