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Everyone Hates Me
17/f
I don't know where I screwed up. Everyone hates me, I have been assaulted at two school events so far this year. I have two friends, I did have three but one no longer wants to be associated with me (she doesn't want to be hated too). I don't think I will be attending my graduation ceremony, everyone takes limos to, because I don't have enough friends to have a limo and I don't want to go alone.
This is pathetic. The police and school are finally involved because I have been assaulted and harassed on numerous occasions over several years. So now even more people hate me because are possibly facing charges and expulsion.
All I have done is mind my own business. I am an attractive, athletic, straight A student. I have accepted that this is how things are going to be.. but how do I prevent next year (university) from being like this? I am outgoing, friendly, often the 'life of the party' .. I love to dance, I'm not afraid to approach a cute guy ... the only reason I have been given as to why everyone hates me is because '[I] am an easy whore who sleeps around with everyone' .. I'm a virgin. Not because I don't have guys after me, I do, I just haven't gotten very close with any of them.
I apologize, much of the information I have given is entirely irrelevant. Thanks for your insight.
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I am sorry you are going through this but seriously...no one cares about that shit in college believe me. Most of the time no one notices you. Make it through the rest of high school and believe me things will get ten times better. High School is just one stage of your life and outside of it no one cares who you were with in it. Look forward to college it will be better.I am sorry I don't have a lot of encouraging words to help you through the rest of the year because I really don't know what to do...it kinda seems like you did all that you can do. you cannot help what others think of you. you are what you want to be and who cares if they don't like it. Also keep close to the friends you have, they must be good!
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this one is a tough one. i know it may seem like this is how its going to be but things can change if you do something to show how great you are. try getting into clubs that other classmates of yours are in therefore you would have more to connect with them on. try to interact more in class and make new friends one at a time. show them how great you are and if somebody says something to you just ignore them don't even respond or let them bother you cause your better than that. show them your the bigger person.
when your in college its like starting off new. do things differently than you did in high school and interact more with your classmates. if your rooming with people try to becoem good friends with them first and then span off and make other friends. get involved as well do a club or something to meet others. you'll be fine i promise just be yourself. you seem like a great person already and you don't have to change a thing.
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