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when i get something, i feel like i dont want it anymore?
i've never had a boyfriend before, maybe because i get bored too easily with guys i really don't know. i've liked this kid for about three years now. he is adorable and so sweet. well i think he always just thought of me as more of a best friend. i was like okay i guess i have to deal with it, but i would still not be completely over it and my feelings wouldn't go away. well recently he started hinting that he likes me. i am really happy about this but now i feel like i see all the bad things about him, sometimes i feel like i'm not even attracted to him anymore when before i use to think he was cute EVERY single day. i see his imperfections and i know everyone is not perfect but these sort of things turn me off. why does this always happen to me! when i hear guys like me, i drift away from them. but this is something i've wanted and waited for so long, i don't want to just push him away because of this but why is it so hard!
19 female.
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What I think the problem is, is that you're scared as to be in a relationship, which means that your first reaction to this is to find reasons as to why you don't want to be in a relationship, so in this case, looking for the negative qualities in these guys.
So, you need to overcome this fear by taking a leap of faith and trusting your original instincts about him (cute) and see how he really is. What you're seeing/hearing about him may not be true, so go and find out about the real guy and see whether he lives up to his old expectations or not.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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