I me this man online he came over with his son and the next day he text me saying he had a great time..Later he text me and starting coming over we have sex and he falls to sleep and gets up later and goes home. Then a few weeks pass and hes texting again to say Hi he comes over again and its sex we have been doing this off and on for 4 months I am falling for him i have never ask him how he feels when he comes we do watch tv and talk and end up in the bed. The last time he came he told me he had miss coming over my friend thinks i should let him come over again have sex with him and tell him its time to go you got what you wanted and so did I and you have made it clear we are just sex. Should I do this or just come out and ask how he feels about me. He tells me Im awesome but what does that mean.What should I do. He tells me I love your hair sent me a text of his son having fun sends me a text going down the road in his truck playing a song awhile back.
Well, i am in a situation similar to yours. Dont make the same mistake as me, and assume he is using you for sex. I did the same thing, i would go over his house and we would have sex. Then, i would leave and say well you got what you wanted. And, he got upset because of that. I would sit him down and ask him where you guys stand with each other. That is the only way you will know for sure. I know it might be tough, but im not so sure he is using you for sex. I could see if he only texted you or called you when he wanted some. But, since you say he sends pictures of his son to you and whatnot, i would say he cares about you in a sense.
So, i would really just talk to him. You dont want to start playing mind games with him, and thinking you know his motives (if he has any) because i made that mistake.
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