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how to get over a guy.
k so the guy that i was not quite in love with (but could of been if we stayed together) went back with his ex. it was about 2 weeks ago n i was crushed when it happened but now im doing okay but i wanna be completely over him.
i miss the boyfriend aspect so much and miss feeling wanted and loved and being called baby.
Not gonna lie, i'm pretty and guys give me a lot of attention. But its mainly for sex and i hate it. i just want a guy that will love me and i will love him. BUT the poroblem is im hellla picky and i can never find the right guy. and when i found him he lets me go! so its going to be hell trying to find a great boyrfriend that i actually like =/
any helpp on:
- letting the right guy come to me/ me finding him (i usually have no luck when i look for guys but i do if i dont look)
- good ways to get completely over him
-SONGS like brandy's almost doesn't.. like the whole, "not good enough" and "i want you back" and "miss you" songs...
PLEASE HELPP mee =) thanks
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i don't know how to answer the top part.
but a good song thats always helped me is
wishes by superchick.
she has a lot of other good songs like that.
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If you want to get over him completely, listening to sad songs is not the right way of going about it. You need to start listening to happier music. You should also try to be a little more positive about where your future is headed. Instead of assuming that it's "going to be hell trying to find a great boyrfriend ', decide to have fun with your situation. Meeting new people is generally an enjoyable experience, and is usually not "hell".
However, if getting over him right away is not your goal, I suggest that you listen to some matchbox twenty songs and continue with your current attitude. There's nothing wrong with doing so, to be honest. It's okay that you are upset. You don't need to try and forget about your pain right away if you don't want to.
As far as missing the attention that you got from your previous boyfriend goes, that is normal. Everyone likes to feel special, and dating someone can definitely help you feel that way. Just be sure that you aren't being too needy, because desperate people are often used and manipulated. Don't let yourself get taken advantage of just because you want attention. By this I mean, if people are using you "mainly for sex", you need to stop them. Do not let anybody take advantage of the fact that you are lonely. Keep your standards high. There is nothing wrong with being "hellla picky". Keep your eye out for nice guys.
Once you decide that you've found a guy that meets your expectations, don't be afraid to try and get to know him. There's nothing wrong with taking the initiative and asking him out. Girls do not always have to wait for the guy to come to them. That being said, if you do not find anybody who meets your standards, you need to wait. Don't settle for somebody just because they are there.
Good luck.
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