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Okay, i have been dating my boyfriend for about a month now. He is really nice and i really like him. I have been to his house before but he has never been to mine. I want him to come over but i am really scared. I know we would watch a movie or something, but my room is really small and my tv is only as big as a computer screen. I get really nervous everytime i even think about letting him come over. I have a big mirror in my room that if you sit on my bed, all you see is whats in the mirror. I would be really awkward if we just sat on my bed and watched a movie watching ourselves watch a movie and there is no way i can turn the mirror. I don't want to watch it anywhere else either. We haven't really got to hang out since we have been going out except for 2 times. I just don't know what to do. Please help asap!! thanks!
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I understand that it can be awkward when your room/TV is small. I actually don't even have my own room, and the only television in my house is the one in the family room, so I can relate to what you are saying.
That being said, you need to stop being so self-conscious about your house. If you really like this boy and you plan on being with him for a long time, you need to let him see your house. If you really want him to get to know you, you need to allow him into your life as much as possible. This means letting him to see you in all kinds of situations, even uncomfortable ones such as this.
How about you invite him over, but explain that you are nervous about the setup of your room? That way he'll fully understand the situation and everything will be out in the open.
Good luck.
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Ok take a deep breath and chill out. Ok lets talk about the mirror. find a long piece of fabric, like a single floor-to-cieling curtin in your favorite color. pin or tape the middle to the top back of the mirror, then take the sides and pin or tape them to the other sides, to make a sort of cool, elegant drape affect. it will take some of the focuse off the mirror, and make a nice accesory. now dont worry about the size of the tv, if he's a nice guy he wont mind and will prolly just be happy to be with you. so just clean the house up a litte, get some insence or candles for a nice smell and relax.
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