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Am I in love with my bestfriend??
I'm 15/f. my bestfriend is 17/m obviously haha. weve known each other for about 4 years. weve helped each other through so much like when his dad committed suicide, I was his only family, and hes my support system because ive been through a lot with anorexia/bulimia. theres a lot more too. we publicize on myspace and everything that were bestfriends. about 6 months ago it was kinda unsaid, but it was kinda obvious he liked me. but i ended up dating this other kid for like 5 months. but lately hes all i can talk about, think about, the only one i want to talk to. we text until like 12am every night and he always end with 'i love you' do you think i have feelings for him more than just bestfriends?
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Do you love him? No probably not, because love is far more complicated then liking someone or not... its about getting thru things no matter what and about caring for someone no matter what happens.
Do you have feelings for him? Quite possibly. Id say if he did "kinda obvious(ly)" like you and is still texting you to that time of night then chances are he still likes you. Whether you want to pursue a relationship thou is a far bigger question, dont rush into anything and listen to what your heart says.
If your worried about your friendship etc then ask yourself this; can you really continue to have a "normal" friendship if he likes you and you like him? Maybe its worth taking the plunge and seeing if theres something more;-)
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