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Why dont i feel pleasure?
First off I'm a virgin but I was just wondering why I don't feel any pleasure when I use a dildo. I have to use a vibrator for clit stimulation. Whenever I try I just don't feel anything so I have to use my vibrator for my clit. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do to change this? Please help!!
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Something like 85% of women don't gain sexual pleasure from penetration. Don't worry. This is perfectly normal. You're fine. When you get a boyfriend just see if he's willing to go down on you.
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There are all sorts of reasons you might not be getting there, and virginity might be a factor too. To be honest, knowing many girls that couldn't get there until showed how, you might be doing it wrong. If you're comfortable with the sort of thing, a more experienced girl can often show you a thing or two. It doesn't make you gay or bi. It's just like someone helping you ride a bike, except a lot more intimate.
Another answer is that you're probably expecting too much. There's no magic button in there that will send happy orgasm feelings throughout your body. Sex is fun, but you have to have another person around for it, obviously. Dildos are something you have to experiment with to use correctly. Different sizes, textures and girths are better or worse, depending on girl. Using different "thrusting" speeds, pressures, and whether or not to couple it with clit stimulation (which I recommend) is also girl-variant.
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