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fighting with my guy friend
15/f/sophomore.
my guy friend is a senior. let's call him chas. chas and i had a fling in january and we almost went out, but then we got into a fight and we were on and off friends for like 6 months. now that we're in school again i see him all the time. and half the time he talks to me and the other half he totally ignores me.he'll give me a compliment one day and then ignore me the next. so today i was with my friend shannon(who knows about the chas thing) and he was like standing near us talking to a freshman girl. so i give shannon a "there he is" look*rolls eyes*and she's like "yeah i know." he sees me and immediately wraps his arm around the freshman and he says obnoxiously loud so i can hear him "i had such a good time the other night. we should do that again!" i ignored him and walked away and he said"oh come on don't leave."so i went to a friends locker and he walks down the hall talking with the freshman and they stop like 5 feet away from us.
the best part is that the other night, my bro was at chas' house. so what he said didnt work. so if he doesnt like me and we don't get along why would he waste his time trying to make me jealous with a freshman?where do he and i stand? what do i do?
any advice is appreciated<3
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Guys are like that. They may not like you but they still want you to like them. It's just how guys are, to the grave.
You and he stand at odds, because he wants you to like him even though he can't be sure he likes you (at least that's how it sounds).
My advice? Depends what road you want to take. You could do the mature thing and tell him that you're done playing the game and that you hope him and the freshman do well together and that you two can be friends. Or you could take the low-road and find yourself a cute little freshman of your own to flaunt at him. This is, in my opinion, the more entertaining of the two, but it really depends on what you want to do.
^_^ Hope I helped.
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Well, if he's a senior going back to a freshman... thats low for him. Don't worry about it, he's trying to make you feel bad and like crap. He probably likes you but he's probably real stubborn. The next time he does that, turn around and say "If you think you're making me jealous, you've got another thing comin because its pretty low of you to be flirting with a little freshman girl who's probably 13 or 14 when your 17 or 18."
That'll shut him up right then and there. :]
Good luck and let me know what happens.
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