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flirtation
i met this great guy at a party last saturday... it was a little embarrassing because i was totally drunk and he wasn't drinking at all. anyway, we ended up talking for a few hours, and afterwards, he came back to my dorm room... where all of my friends were. awkward. anyway he stayed and we talked for a while, and he asked for my number, then texted me his. i texted him once last night to see if he was going out (we have thursday and friday off this week), but otherwise we haven't talked at all. is it too early to be disappointed that he hasn't called? is there a way i can get his attention again without seeming like a stalker? we live in different dorms, which makes seeing him a little more difficult. we also aren't in any classes together.
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Don't sweat it.
He asked for your phone number. He gave you his phone number. That is a good sign.
Be patient... But don't wait by the phone. If he likes you, he'll call. Could be that he hasn't called yet because he doesn't want to seem desperate. Or because he's a jerk. You'll find out.
Finding out will be easier... If you deny your girly instincts. Don't call him. Don't text. Don't email. Don't conviently bump into him outside his dorm. Give him the opportunity to act like 'the guy' and call you and ask you out on a date. If he can't do that, then yes... He is a jerk.
And if he is a jerk... He's not worth stalking. There are plenty of guys out there, I'm sure, that would ask you out on a date without you having to hide in any bushes.
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