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single and stalking?
I'm a junior in high school. For the past two years, everytime i liked a guy, its always been some random boy ive seen walking down the hall. I never get crushes on guys that I actually know; just guys that I think are really cute that ive never talked to before.
A few days ago I was walking through the halls and saw this guy, and as soon as i made eye contact with him, my little crush started to develope. I know his name, because we use to ride the same bus in middle school and for some strange reason i always remember stuff like that.
I feel like a stalker. Is this normal? My friends make fun of me for liking this random guys. It doesnt feel right to me but i cant help it.
*Also, does anyone have any adivce on how I can talk to this guy and get to know him? I dont have any classes with him, so it would have to be when i see him during lunch.
thanks so much!!
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No, you're not a stalker. Actually believe it or not many girls are like this. So yes, it is pretty normal. You are like nowhere near being a stalker.
Hm...why not sit at his table at lunch one day. Start up an interesting convo. If he isn't liking it change topic. Just get to know him. I hope it all goes well for you. Good luck =]
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Well, it's not as if the guy was a complete stranger, and most importantly, you didn't follow him home or anything. That's stalking. Anyway, I can see the complication in taking an interest in people you already know. It's like you know too much about them, and they become human, no longer perfect. That's how I am.
I'm MUCH more likely to be attracted to some random guy I see at the mall or on the highway than one who I see everyday at school. It's just the way some of us are.
About your friends, you don't automatically have to tell them when you see some cute guy you see, or make it clear that liking and attraction are two VERY different things.
You can simply go up to the guy, which is of course the most fool-proof approach. You can cut in front of him on the lunch line and smile to show that it was on purpose, get to know his friends, "accidentally" bump into him in the hallways. Always smile, though. Good luck with your crush <3.
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i think what you're feeling isn't really a crush. it's just like, attraction. you think he's cute/hot/whatever so you're like 'oh i like this kid'.
do you have any friends that know him? have them introduce you to him! i don't know what else to tell you because it would be kinda awkward if you just went up to him and started talking to him. i mean you could say something subtle though like 'i like your shirt' or like ask him a question like 'do you know where ____ is?'. i would go with something like the 'i like your shirt' thing though because then he'll feel good that you have him a compliment.
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