Question Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 11:29 am
hey again,
you answered this question for me about a week ago:
okay so i really really like my boyfriend of 2 months. we haven't been going out all that long but we've been making out and stuff and i know he really cares about me. thing is, when we make out he doesnt really move his hands...i move mine around his face neck and hair alot and he kinda just wraps his arms around me and thats where they stay the whole time...is there any hints i can give him that would tell him he could touch me? thankss
17/f
well i took your advice and took his hands and put them where i wanted them and then he just kept them there the whole time really. how can i show him that its okay for him to move his hands around me? i don't really wanna feel like a slut but when im making out i kinda like to move my hands around him and it feels weird when hes not doing the same to me...my last option is telling him that, because id much rather show him...do you have any ideas of what i can do?
thanks so much.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ediemarie answered Saturday September 27 2008, 1:48 pm: Hi,
I'm glad you got back to me and kept me informed.
It seems that he's the type that needs you to just come out and tell him. He is definitely not picking up the hint. Lol, that's cute.
Okay, here's another suggestion. If you're still not ready to come out and tell him, the next time you're in the moment and you move his hands once again, just keep moving his hands every few seconds or so. Everytime you want him to put his hands somewhere else, do it for him. He should get the message. If he doesn't, honey you are just going to come right out and tell him what you like. Assert yourself. Simply say, "baby, I like it when you touch me. It makes me happy." Some men just don't get it and that's okay. That's why they have us.
I hope this helped you again. :) Please keep me informed!
Good luck,
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