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My boyfriend and I
okay, so....my boyfriend and I have a pretty decent sex life, the only thing is that, well, I don't ever really DO anything....he usually does most of it. My question is...how do I give myself the confidence to be able to actually GIVE instead of just TAKING in our sexual relationship?
ANY advice is welcome!!!
~thanks~
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well, i think you need to establish a comfort level with him. a lot of girls feel uncomfortable about receiving because they dont know what the guy would think about their "area" or their chest. so you have this down pat that you feel comfortable with him pleasing you. now, you want to please your guy but you arent confident that you will do a good job, am i right? well you can start off slowly. take the iniciative and start off next time you guys start kissing. slowly move your hand down to his area and begin by exploring, touching, maybe using lips/mouth for a little bit . i know he will like it, and the more often you do it, the better you will get.
communnication can really help also. maybe he c an guide your hand and show you the grip and speed he likes, etc etc.
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