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my girlfriend
My girlfriend is really great and nice, but she's been acting weird lately? She's really wanting me to have sex with her. It surprised me but now she's asking me constantly. My answer Is always not yet? What should I do?
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I suggest that you have a sit-down with her and explain that you are not ready for sex yet and that it doesn't mean you don't love her. You need to tell her exectly why you don't want to, make her understand your point of view. If she loves you she will wait. If she gives you the cold shoulder, let her be, she will come around.
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I had a friend who was always pressuring her boyfriend to have sex with her. Her boyfriend was so fet up with it after a couple months that he said he loved her but he wasn't ready and that he would have to break it off if she were to continue. Not becase he didn't love her but because her actions showed no respect for him and he didn't want a relationship like that. She was mad for a few days but finally clued into what he was telling her and stopped trying to pressure him. They are still a happy couple today, so let this be a symbol of hope for you two.
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Hope this is what you were looking for =]
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