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I like this kid he is funny but how can i show him how i feel?
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Your question is rather vague but I'll do my best to answer it in as much detail as I can.
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First of all, you need to figure out exactly how you feel about this guy. Sometimes we get the feeling we like someone because they're new to us and sometimes our natural instincs kick in to have a man to love. So figure out your true feelings and make sure ou really do like him and it's not just a fling. bOnce you've done that you can move onto the next step: giving subtle hints.
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These hints include:
- smiling alot at him, but not in a creepy staring way
- talk to him alot, but don't bore him or gossip about people
- when you are talking, laugh reasonably at his jokes, keeping a nice big smile on your face
- also, if the situation permits, touch him when you say something or when he says something funny (by touch i don't mean grabbing him i mean say he tells a funny story you could say "thats so funny" and gently put your hand on his leg/knee when you say that but immediately take your hand off otherwise you may come off too foreward)
- find things you both have in common and discuss them, maybe even asking him to to it with you provided it is an appropriate activity (ex: the gym or running or volunteering)
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If all goes well, after a few weeks or however long you need to figure out where you stand, you can either tell him how you feel if he hasn't clued in or you can be a little more blunt with your actions so he catches on. Peronally, I would wait long enough so you prety much know how he feels about you, and if it's in any way possible for it to work out, tell him how you feel. It may seem really hard, but trust me, once it's done it's done and you won't have to worry about it anymore. Who knows, it may be the best decision you've made.
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Hope this is what you were looking for =]
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~unluckychick~
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