Question Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 6:54 pm
i never thought i would ask a question like this but i might as well. i've thinking about giving my boyfriend head. we've been dating for 11 months, thats not why i want to i just do, you know for him. he's never asked so he isn't pressuring me or anything, never has. he has tried giving me oral but like i stopped him. soo my question is it like awkward doing it? it would be my first time so i don't know what i'm doing really. and if he ever gives me oral what do i do when he's doing it?
i believe i'm ready, i'm just curious.
thanks!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Jami answered Wednesday September 17 2008, 10:57 am: If he gives oral, just sit or lay back relax and enjoy it. Based on what he does you will have a natural reaction to it. Once you become comfortable you will just let go and really enjoy it. Don't think so much, just kind of be in the moment. Doing it yourself will only be awkward if you make it. Just try to really get into what you are doing and he will basically be in another world so to speak. Let him know that it is your first time and he will appreciate your efforts. Its not a hard thing to do, so don't spend time worrying about whether you think you will be good or not. Take your time and do what is comfortable for you and the rest will flow naturally (no pun intended). Any other questions about it just ask! ;) [ Jami's advice column | Ask Jami A Question ]
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