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the same guy.
thanks mucho! i am very very thankful for your wonderful advice about the guy . (im the girl who typed about the guy i liked in spanish class)
you know what you made really good points and i actually think that im gonna be the one who'll start it all.
oh and btw, i cant ask him for a pencil because he sits way across from me (but were like face to face, you know?)
today, i was talking to a friend at church . we both go to the same school and we ended up talkin bout guys and i suddenly mentioned that i was crushing on this guy. (the same guy) i had to describe him cause she might kno him. but i never said the name. then she said "is the name *****?" i was like "omg yes!"
so yeah. she knows him and told me a little about him. she told me that he supposedly used to like her (but i dont believe everything i hear). and that he's "immature" i was like "really? why??" (again i dont believe everything i hear) "because he asks me a lot of retarded questions.. like he wants to know every detail... liek about me.." so i was like hmmmm.. im not gonna put that in my mind cuz i'm gonna find out myself. but i was thinking:
1 if he's shy, why would he act like that to my friend? like "immature" and asks a lot of "retarded" questions? maybe he's just different around other people huh. agree/disagree.. comment?
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One possibility is that he is different around different people, the other could simply be that you and your friend have different ideas of "immature". Something she may find immature, you may see as being cute. =P
There is good news that comes from this conversation with her. You both know the same person! So what do we have here...common grounds! Use that to your advantage or to start conversation.
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I'll tell you one thing that helped with a guy I had a crush on in highschool. This is going to sound a little messed up, but you'd be suprised how well it works:
Pick a girl in a class (anybody). This girl has become your "pawn". Let's pretend her name is Jamie. When you get the chance to talk to him, just casually say "I heard you were dating Jamie". You both know this isn't true and he's going to want to defend himself by saying so. Then this can lead to a comment about common rumors, things people say, etc. Next thing you know you are both laughing about this rumor that's going around (even though it never was). LOL I told you it sounds a bit insane, but it helped me out! =) Not to mention, if you "get the guy", it makes for a great story later on haha.
Good luck girlie! I say jump in there and talk to him. Worse case scenario, you met a new friend. You don't want to see him walking hand in hand with another girl regretting that you NEVER said anything to him.
I hope all is well and promise to keep me updated! I've been in a long term relationship for about 4 years now..I kinda miss the chase! I can live it through you haha.
<3 Leslie
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