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one year relationship- getting over him
i was wondering how you can get over a guy that you went out for a year. he was the world for me and my best friend. i tried everything but sometimes i think of him and what we used to do. i miss him, but as a friend.
can you help me get over him or at least do something to get him off my mind????
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Dear Please Help:
Whenever something ends, something new begins, right? Getting him off of your mind is not the best thing for you because I am sure you have many happy memories of your time together. The important thing to help you get over him is to accept the reasons why the relationship didn't work. Most likely, the same reasons why you couldn't stay together are the same reasons why you are not still friends. Was there something that you needed from him that he wasn't giving you? Miss him, it's your right. There was good in the relationship, but there was no future. You will get over him when you start planning your future without him.
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Invite some friends over, and watch some chick flicks. Get fun and upbeat movies like "John Tucker Must Die"
Get some money, and get a new haircut that is fun and flirty, and invest in some new makeup!
Grab a good book, and some jelly beans (any candy/food works) and just get lost in the book
Spend a day with other single friends and spend the night rating cute (single) guys! Find a new crush! You never know!
Open your mind and realize that if he deserved you, he would be with you.
Throw a party.
Call your friends and have a good laugh!
Shop! Splurge!
Write down every single thing that annoyed you about him. Then read it and realize he is not only not perfect, but also not perfect for you.
Exercise! Work it, girlfriend! Over the weekend work out, eat great and when the weekend's over, he's going to take one look and say "Boy, she does look good."
The more time you spend thinking about him, the harder it will be to get over him.
Remind yourself that he's just another guy.
If he flirts with you, then ignore him. He's like a mosquito; you have to swat him.
And if he's rude to you, you be rude to him.
Get rid of everything that reminds you of him...including his phone number
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