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Do I have ANY chance?
I'm a junior in high school now. So there's this guy that had a major crush on me in 4th 5th and 6th grade (I wasn't interested in boys much back then, I thought it was embarassing), but we went to different schools in 7th and 8th, and then in high school we never had a class together until this year- we have one. He's changed a lot since then, obviously. He's very good looking and funny and smart, and he's a very good actor. But he's been in a realtionship with this girl for at least 3 years now... and her facebook says "married" to him and all- like it's pretty serious. This year I've finally been able to talk to him again, and he flirts with me- during class I got up to turn something in and he's like-"Jess? Jess forgot to turn something in, oh my gosh! *jokingly* Jess was cool, she was in my class in 6th grade, you remember that?" In front of everybody, and then later he gave me a hug and said- I used to have a crush on you, by the way *laughs* And so I guess my question is... I like him... but he's been with his girlfriend SO long. Is there even a chance for me? I don't want to try to steal him away, but I hate just passing him up, he's the guy I could be happiest with. It's kind of depressing... so what am I supposed to do?
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tell him how your feeling but first,
i would ask him causally about his girlfriend like if there really serious and committed and stuff because if you tell him how you feel before finding that out and he sais he really lover her blah hes committed then you could just ruin your friendship..
so find out first and if he is then, i know it would be hard but if you don't want to "steal him" then you should back off
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same thing i say for most relationship questions, talk to him. You are both mature people now, and can talk through things.
don't get to far into his words because it might be you trying to see only what you want, well listening.
just talk to him, keep talking to keep in un ackward, and that should help it all out.
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