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boyfriend dilemma
Thank you for your feedback. I am so confused with this guy. I don't mind being the bread winner, but I have been putting most of the money out here lately. I don't get any child support from my ex and I feel like the stress is building. It's helpful to have someone pay half of the bills and I feel like this is all I am holding on to. At times we have a nice relationship, but gosh it is so hard to work at. I feel like all I want to do is focus on my child and school. I hate to be lonely, but I don't have much experience with relationships. The last guy I dated was mean and a drunk. I ended up staying with him for five years and was single for five yrs. I have grown more independent and the current guy has been there for me. I want to talk to him, but he gets angry when we come to reality with life. He does go to work everyday and my family seems to think, you can do better. He seems more as a child to my son, rather than a father figure. My son's father lost visitation rights two years ago and has been in prison. Luckily we live four hours away from him and he rarely calls. My son and I moved here four years ago and I am determined to make a successful life. I have always been down in some way and any stress is horrifying to me. I really appreciate your feedback and god bless.
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You're very welcome. Just make sure whatever
decision you make is the right one for you.
Listen to what family says, but go your own way.
If you have any doubts at all it probably
won't stand the test of time. If he gets
angry when it comes to discussing reality,
thats not so good either.
You need a good PARTNER. That means someone
who is willing to listen, help with decisions
and in making a happy family home. Just know
if this guy isn't that man, that man is out
there somewhere. :)
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