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Decoding my crush
sorry, this is kind of long.
so yesterday i went to visit my friend at her band practice with our schools marching band. i walked in and my friends come up and hug me. and then i go hug my crush and my other friend just starts going 'awhhhhhh' and my crush apparently gave her like a death glare. and then after sectionals (seperate instruments practice with their own instruments) my crush kept coming up to me and was like 'those shorts are innappropriate' and i'm like 'is that bad?' and he said 'no'. and then we were all in the auditorium like some of my friends, my crush and i and my crush puts his arm on my head and hes like 'you know, you could really work doing this on account of your shortness' all smiling and im like oh gee thanks haha. and then he puts his arm around me, and out of natural instinct i put my head on his shoulder and we stayed like that for a while. and then we all went outside and he came up and sat beside me with my two other friends (who are going out) against the fence and when they all stood up to go practice marching i was like, okay i have to go soon so i probably wont see you when you guys have your break so i want my hug now, so he gave me one and he hugged me so that i basically almost fell over and then when he was walking off he was like 'i still think those shorts are inappropriate' and i'm like 'yeah..' and hes like 'but i'm not saying i dont like them' with this huge grin. and a couple times during practice, he would wave to me. so i left him a note in his sax case and wrote 'you look really good. =] ♥ jenny' and apparently he found it and was all smiley and stuff and so my friend asked him after i left 'what do you think of jenny?' and hes like 'i liked her shorts' and my friends like 'okay...now what did you think of JENNY?' and hes like 'doesnt that say enough?' and my friends like 'no' so he apparently said he was gonna think about it last night. but my friend said his whole expression when he talked about me was like a little boy on christmas morning and when he found the note, he was all smiles.
but then today, my friend said that when she asked him if he decided if he liked me or not he said not really.
but this boy has also not gone out with anyone for a while and he is kinda shy. so maybe that has something to do with it?
but can you tell if he likes me or not? or if theres something there?
thankssss!
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Here's a link to a similar question that my guy friend answered:
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From there:
"I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!"
-Laura (16-f)
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Well in my opinion, just from the information you've given it seems more like he is just a big flirt and likes your body and not so much you.
Also because of his comment "I liked her shorts" or whatever, that sort of shows that there isn't much respect for you but your shorts were nice and inappropriate, like he said, for him.
Unfortenatly just because guys get all smiley or are shy like that you really have to be careful.
I'm not saying anything rude okay so please don't take it like that way or get deffensive, I even asked one of my guy friends before answering this question, I can only go by what you've given me and please realize that I can be completey off.
Just with my experince with guys and having a lot of guy friends like I do, if he said "not really" then he means "not really."
I would move on and find someone better that IS interested and isn't just a "not really" and likes you and not your shorts.
Unless of course you like that, then go for it. He maybe nice to flirt with though and have as a friend but if your looking for a relationship I'd say ditch that guy and find a better one that's more of a sure thing. =)
Good luck, hope I could help a little, and again I wasn't trying to make you mad I didn't mean any of it to be rude, just giving my input since you asked. =)
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