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thanks for your earlier help but i need more
Hi. You just answered my question about help with my boyfriend. You helped a lot and I'm going to talk to him about what he likes, but this is embarrassing, and mahy be a little awkward. I do not know what a hand job is do you think you could explain it for me. You don't have to if it's going to be weird, I was just wondering.
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Well, I'm glad I was able to you help you anyway I could. =)
I have no problems explaining it to you and hopefully I can explain it to where you understand. =)
Okay, I'll explain to you what my ex liked. (He was my first and only so he pretty much taught me everything which is why I suggest talking to your boyfriend about it because it was really fun for us and he taught me what pleased him just like your boyfriend can teach you what he likes =].)
Lay down beside him with him on his back usually, you on your side to kiss him or tease him while you do it is usually easier. You use your hand and stroke his penis (moving your hand up and down it.) There are alot of ways you can make it feel better and have the pleasure rate up by using lotion, and some girls use their own spit (the guy I spoke of before liked that the best, but EVERY guy is different remember. =]) My ex really liked his head being played with too. While your doing that though try to ask him what he likes, it's hard to explain I think but I'm sure you know how to talk to your boyfriend in a "turn on" kind of way so give it a try and I'm sure he'll love it! It may seem awkward but I honestly don't think he's going to mind. By him explaining and making it a game makes it more exciting for the both of you and his pleasure will be so much higher, in the end the embarrassing-ness will wear off...
Also just incase I didn't explain it right up there I got this off of wikipedia.com and states pretty much the same thing I did. =)
"A common handjob technique - First, the giving partner grips the receiving partner's penis with their entire hand similar to making a fist (except the fist is made around the penis). An alternative grip is to use only a couple fingers wrapped around the penis. Second, the giving partner moves their hand in an up and down motion, which causes stimulation to the shaft and glans (head) of the penis. Some people prefer to use lubrication to prevent friction on the penis."
That's really all I've got. Hope this helps though and didn't gross you out too much I tried to not be too explicit or rude but still explain enough for you to understand. And I hope I don't get into trouble for saying this. =)
Good luck! =)
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