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Question Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 2:23 am

Hey there!

I’m not exactly sure what your thought are on the subject, but you give good advice so I’ll ask anyways =]
I’m about to turn 16 (I’m a girl, by the way =]) and a lot of the people around me have started to get into drugs, drinking, and sex. Lots of people just go to crazy parties with their boyfriends, or do sexual things together, but I’m reallllly not into all that. So I was wondering if you had any ideas of things I can do with my guy? Fun date activities, because the only thing that we really do is see a movie and then maybe go to the mall, but there’s only so many movies you can see and only so many times you can go to the mall until it gets somewhat boring =]. I just want to stay away from the kinds of things I talked about earlier (sorry if I sound like such a prude...but it’s my opinion =]) and to prove that you can have fun without those things!!

Thanks!

-M


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Cux answered Sunday August 10 2008, 6:00 pm:
First of all, YOU ARE AMAZING.

Thank you so much for showing me that there still ARE people out there who aren't just looking for sex all the time with their two-month boyfriend/girlfriend. It's incredibly refreshing to hear that you're not in to that stuff, because neither am I ;]. I guess you came to the right guy? =]

Hmm. You guys could go out to eat a few times [that gets easier when one of you can drive and when you two have jobs to pay for it].

You guys could go to the library, pick up a few books, and then either stay there and read or go to a coffee shop and get something to drink and read together. My sister and her boyfriend do that all the time =].

You could, to watch movies, just rent one, and, if you're comfortable with doing so, cuddle on the couch or something that isn't sexual but is just slightly romantic.

Since it's still summer, you could maybe make a picnic basket and take him out to a nearby park and just hang out and eat a bit.

When fall comes around, you could go to a park and play in the leaves or something. I know how childish that may sound, but sometimes it's a good thing to be a kid again ;].

In the winter, you could have a two-person snow fight and you could make a snowman or make snow angels and whatnot. Like I said, being a kid again once in awhile is alright =].


At this moment I can't think of anything else.

But thank you for inboxing me ;]


**EDIT**

No- I think a Star Wars marathon is perfect. Good choice ;]



--Jack
(16/m)

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