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Guilty
About a month ago my best guy friend, who I've dated twice, convinced me to have a very perverted conversation. I hate being perverted and I don't like acting like it, so now I am guilty and I hate myself. I still love him though but I'm afraid he will want to have other conversations like the last one. What should I do? I don't know how to say "no" if he asks me again.
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That's so strange...
I have a really good guy friend (dated him twice) and he wants me to do that too!!!
So speaking from experience, it's hard to tell him that you don't want to talk about that kind of stuff, so if he asks you, just say 'you can't talk to *insert guy friend's name here* about that instead? haha' that way you're not being harsh but you're letting him know that YOU DON'T WANT TO TALK LIKE THAT!!!! I know that it's soooo easy to feel guilty just from talking perverted, so please don't feel pressured into doing it. If you tell him no and he still bothers you about it, don't talk to him.
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Aw, there's no need for you to feel guiltlly or hate yourself. HE'S the one that talked you into such a stupd thing, so therefore he's the one who should be feeling guilty. You really need to have a serious talk with him, and tell him straight forward that you're not into having those types of converstions. Tell him if he wants to talk about perverted thins..to go and talk to his "guy" friends about it. NOT a girl!
Goodluck & I hope helped!
♥Kristen
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Hmm, if you don't want to have these conversations, then just flat out tell him. He cannot and should not make you do things you do not want to do.
Don't feel guilty for something he forced you to do. Yes, you had free will, but you probably didn't know. Just don't think about it anymore.
Next time he asks, the best way to say no is to just say "No, I don't want to."
Trying to come up with elaborate excuses will not work. Just flat out tell him what you want and don't want.
--Jack
(16/m)
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