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im still in love with him


Question Posted Sunday August 3 2008, 2:29 am

hi...
me and my ex boyfriend broke up the second of September of 2007 and have not spoken to each other two months before that because he went Leftbridge Alberta(i think) and was out of cell range so we couldn't text/call each other and on the first day of school we haven't spoken to each other and i was to scared/stubborn to talk to him so the next day my friends broke up with him for me and at first i didn't care it was fine until a couple weeks later i realized that i was still in love with him...that was a year ago and during school i would see him during break and lunch etc. and my heart would ache.And every month I would tell my best friend that it was like an amount of months that we haven't spoke to each other. it has now been a year and i still cry over him I really want to move on but then again I don't want to what do i do


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SmartyLexi answered Wednesday August 6 2008, 8:47 pm:
The two best ways to get over/fix this that I can think of are:

a) You need to realize that you can't well on the past constantly. When you look too far in the past, you can't look forward to, well, moving forward. Crying over a breakup that happened almost a year ago won't help you at all. The one thing you can do is start meeting new people.

b) If you're really in love with him, then shouldn't you be able to talk to him? If you previously had a relationship with him, you should know what he's about and be able to talk to him easily. Start by saying "Hi!" or have small conversations with him...

Hopefully, this helps! Good luck! And feel better!

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