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i want to kno if my ex still wants me & should i ask him back out, or how?
ok to start off me and my ex had been going together for 11 months and in may of 2008 he broke up with me.he said that i was his main chick and that he was sorry and he made a big mistake and the reason he was breaking up with me was because he cheated and he got a girl pregnant.he was staying with her to raise a family 4 his child.it hurt me at the time i wanted him to be with me and only me but i couldnt be selfish if he wanted to be a man & raise his child i should let him do that.we decided to be friends and i thought i would never talk to him again.but we didnt talk for about a month. and then in july of this year he told me that he wanted me to come see him . he said that he had came to my house earlier to see mee but i wasnt there.when i saw him we were acting all cool and everything i was too ashamed to tell him that i still had feelings for him.he told me that the girl he thought he had got pregnant wasnt pregnant i dont kno what happened but i didnt want to get all into his business.but then he kissed me then after he did he looked into my eyes and we were both smiling kind of shy like.he was introducing me to his cousins like i was his girl. and he said that i was his lady.he had his arm around me when we went outside. but basically that day he was acting like i was his girl.then last weekend i got up the nerve to tell him how i feel i sent him a message saying that i love him and i always will no matter what and i told him to let me kno if he got the message.he called me and we started talkin and laughin like old times and he didnt want to get off the phone with me.he told me that he still loves me.next thing i kno he starts sending me txts and stuff everyday.he is always texting me wanting me to come see him.he even offered to pick me up.i really love him and 11 months is a long time to just throw what we had away and i kno he still loves me so what should i do?just move on and be friends with him? wait for him to ask me back out?or give him a second chance and ask him back out and if i ask him bac out how should i say it?by the way i am 16 years old and i am a female
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Um well I went through a similar situation (but not that "intense") I gave the guy a second/third chance, and he basically blew it. We were on/off for 7 months, and he came to me again and I gave him that chance. Just don't make a commitment right now because we're young still and there's 3 billion more guys. Obviously if he cheated once, chance are, he'll do it again. History repeats itself, and if I were you, I wouldn't give him another chance :/
Be careful if you do, though!
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