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best friends
ok my best friend is dateing my outher guy best friend and i just met her this year but i have know him since kindergarden and she said that i could not c him or talk to him but i could not let that ruen me and my guy friend relashinship so i met up with him at the mall and we talked he than texted her and said that we wher hanging out and that she should not have told me i could not c him or chat so no she is saying all this stupet stuff about me and telling me that i am fat and every thing i have no idea what to do i am 14 and
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okay so, your friend is just jelous, and insecure. And its really not your fault at all, its all on her. What you need to do is just call her up and be like look, i have no intention of trying to get with your boyfirend, and he does not see me as more than a firend. Tell her you understand that shes conscerned about her boyfriend hanging out with other girls(who wouldnt) but that she can trust you. I think you should try to hang out with both of them together for awhile. As in, You, your best friend, and her boyfirend. That way she can see that its only a firend thing for herself. As for her boyfirend, he really just needs to sit down with her and let her know how he feels. If he genuienly likes her, and has no feelings towards you, he needs to voice that. He should reassure her by saying that he likes to hang with you as a firend, but would never like you in that way. No matter what she needs to feel secure otherwise she will resent you for hanging with her boyfirend, and therefore will probably try and hurt your feelings to make herself feel better. i wouldnt continue to see him without her knowing, doing thing behind your firends back is only going to make it worst. You just need to be honest and gain her trust.
Oh and shes a bitch for saying things about you. Clearly shes just jelous, so don't let it get to you.
*let me know how everything goes
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