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texting guys
Ok well im 15 yr old girl and heres my problem.. well i recently met this guy and hes a freshman and im a sophmore.. i hung out with him like once in a big group and stuff but after that ive been texting him and he seems really nice and texts back and everything and i think i like him and want to hang out with him more but i feel like every time we text each other im always the first one to start that conversation .. since you are a guy do you think that hes not into me since he never texts me first or that maybe its just because hes a guy and he doesnt really realize it or something like that? If you like a girl or maybe want to become friends with her do you normally start the text conversation?
thanks :)
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Just to warn you, I'm not yelling at you only, but all those out there on Advicenators who think that JUST because a guy doesn't text you first, it means he can't POSSIBLY like you.
I don't know what it is that makes people think this. Seriously, sometimes we guys don't feel like starting a conversation because we're not always into talking. Sometimes we are. It really just depends.
And something as little as texting, come on, texting, for goodness sake, shouldn't dictate whether a guy likes you or not. The fact that he talks to you should be good enough, you know?
Since I see texting as the lowest form of communication, other than telegrams and letters, I don't see it as a big deal that he doesn't text you first. Maybe he's just busy and doesn't regularly think: Oh dear, maybe I should text this girl or she might think I'm a jerk.
Guys don't think like that.
So aside from my rant, which has meaning, I think that you should only take offense if he doesn't start the conversation first, if the conversation is IN PERSON, not through text. Like if you clearly make eye contact and he doesn't at least say hello or some type of small-talk, then I would say he doesn't like you as any more than a friend.
--Jack
(16/m)
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