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i need a guy's opinion
so i know this guy and he goes to another school. we did text alot from when i met him for a couple weeks and we would flirt and stuff (but it seemed like i texted him first most of the time.. which i thought was weird) and my friend looked on his facebook and it said he had a girlfriend! so one day i asked him if it was true and he said yes but he "didnt want to just be like 'i have a gf!' " and i never talk to him again. so we still talk alot just not as much (and i still feel like hes kindof flirting with me). so when i first found out he had a gf i had to kindof forget about liking him and become one of his friends.. now the more i talk to him the more i think he is the best guy and im starting to like him again. he never says anything about his gf. hes never even told me her name or said that theyre hanging out or anything! my friends say that they think he likes me or isnt too interested in his gf. im really confused on how to feel about him and what he really does feel about me (and i really dont want to ask..!). what do you think??
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You can't trust that he likes you [only] until he doesn't have a girlfriend. Once she's out of the picture, if she ever will be, the maybe I can see something happening. But until then, although he may like you, I wouldn't try to make a move on him or anything. Just be patient.
**EDIT**
I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
--Jack
(16/m)
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