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How shoud I act?
You see.. a while ago my neighbor died.
He's one year younger than me, we weren't friends, we went to the same school, and to tell you the truth i never liked him because he was a bad influence and hit me once n made me cry three years ago so i'm just apathetic about his death. My brother though..they were both friends and he's really down about it. I haven't seen him, he left to see him at the hospital. I'm never nice to my brother so i really don't know how to act around him now..
Then there's my neighbors sisters, i actually like them and feel really bad because before they left to the hospital they were outside crying with their mother.. i haven't talked to them in awhile so they'll probably think i'm some weirdo and that i don't care at all if i do talk to them now..
I don't know.. this whole thing is just weird.
I didn't expect my summer to end like this..
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just keep it simple. go over to their house, say hello, and tell them you're sorry for their loss. if you want, you can also tell them that you're there if they want to talk, but it isn't really necessary. you can ask them if they need anything, &just help them out, but you don't really have to, since it sounds like you aren't very close to them. as for your brother, just help him out. ask him if he needs anything, how hes feeling, &tell him you're sorry it had to be this way. &if he acts out toward you, just try to understand that its nothing personal. just be a nice, even passive person toward him.
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